So, why does the toilet seem to cause more dilation? Because we have been conditioned to relax on the toilet our entire lives!
If you are feeling tension or having trouble relaxing, try sitting on the toilet during your birth! Let’s explore three of our tips to use the toilet as a labor comfort tool!
3 Tips to Use the Toilet During Labor
The toilet is one of those labor comfort tools we know will likely be available regardless of your birth location. But the props available to support laboring on the toilet may vary.
Here are our three tips to use the toilet during labor:
- Use a squatty potty or stool to elevate the feet to help relax the pelvic floor.
- Change positions on the toilet to expose your back for your partner to apply comfort measures.
- Turn off the lights to set the labor mood in the bathroom!
1) Elevate the Feet: Squatty Potty or Stool
The first thing we can do to relax more on the toilet during labor (and in general) is to use a squatty potty or stool to elevate the feet.
When we are on our tippy toes because the toilet is too tall, it can create more tension as we reach for the floor.
Putting a stool or squatty potty under the feet can support relaxation on the toilet!
Many labor rooms will have a stool *somewhere* that you can use to place under your feet, but that stool is not always the right height or easily accessible.
Options could include:
- Use a travel squatty potty that you can pack easily in your labor bag
- Flip the trash can on its side to use as a stool
- Ask the nurse where the stool is at
2) Try Facing in Another Direction!
If facing forward is not doing it for you, you can try to turn around and face the other way!
Use pillows to lean against, either with your back or your belly!
When sitting backward on the toilet, your partner or doula can apply comfort measures to your back such as counter pressure or massage, so it may help you relax even more!
3) Turn off the bathroom lights: Set the Mood
The bathroom lights are really bright! Turn them off to set the mood to relax.
I’ll usually leave the bathroom door open so the light from the labor room still provides some light, or you can bring some portable fake candles or string lights to hang up in the bathroom to provide some light, as well!
Laboring in a really bright environment could interfere with your oxytocin release, so turn the lights off to set the mood!
Use the dilation station!
If you are having trouble releasing or relaxing during labor, try sitting on the toilet! We tend to have a conditioned relaxation response to release and relax when we sit on the toilet, so we can use this to support our labor!
Try using something to prop your feet up, try different positions, and turn off the lights to set the mood!
Learn more comfort techniques to support your birth in our childbirth education courses!